Monday, April 26, 2010

Amost could not make it!

10 years old

Pinky has now turned 10! He will soon start his puberty stage. We are so nervous about, because he has already done some uncomfortable qustions, which are very hard to answer. It was tough but we managed to answer the all and clear his doubts. By him being a boy and be sorrrounded of women it must be hard on him to ask things and clear his man concerning doubts but fortunately we've all built a solid, comfortable, and trustful relationship. As he is growing he is also finding himself and defining his personality. Hes been a fan of soccer and music sinc he was just a little boy and still cherish this passion. Ever since he met the new born puppies of his cousin Isabelle he's been saying, demanding really, he needs a dog! We've thought about it and decided to give him one of the new borns he'd just met, but shh it'll be a surprise.





Answer to question #6
Pinky found 1 million lmps.with a phone number with it. I would dial the phone number out of mere curiosity and depending on its response decide what o do with the money. Pinky would have given it to me and suggestd what we should do, which I suppose its the same thing i had in mind. But that all depends on Pinky's own perspective and this is due to the social contract and individual rights. At this stage, people begin to account for the differing values, opinions, and beliefs of other people. Rules of law are important for maintaining a society, but members of the society should agree upon these standards.



http://pediatrics.about.com/cs/agesstages/a/nine_years.htm

9 years old

We are so proud and admired of how Pinky has grown! He shows more responsibility, independence, obedience, and ability to get along with others. Feelings of empathy and altruism are apparent in him, and he is a good and devoted friend. Just now he was making a little gift for his friend Jake and felt really thrilled about how happy he was going to make him feel. Pinky is no quite self-sufficient, he does his homeworks without been told, tries to maintain things in order and even helps prepare his meals.He's mature now, he recognizes when he has done wrong, but also when he has failed to do right. He will confess to us when he has done wrong, because his conscience bothers him until he does. He is somewhat less likely to try to blame or excuse his actions, but still uses these tactics when he is embarrassed or ashamed.





http://childparenting.about.com/od/childdevelopment/a/nineyearoldhom_2.htm

Sunday, April 25, 2010

8 years old...

At this age the problems we've come to deal with are not many yet still drain us thoroughly.He ha been having a later bedtime. He has to be reminded to go to bed and puts it off as long as possible.He sleeps soundly and rarely has nightmares.Enjoys going to places and doing things, any activity that involves being with others, especially us,his family. He loves being at school, playing with friends, belonging to clubs, and moving from one activity to another all day long. He has incorporated to the soccer and basketball team. He absolutely loves; is getting really good at it and making many new friends.Because he's experiencing a lot of changes he can be rude, obnoxious, critical, and impatient at times . He thinks that he knows more than he really does, and comes off as a know-it-all. This is a bit of a hard stage of his growth it is now when he's beginning to develop a subjective psychological conception of himself. He is just beginning to be aware of a separate inner experience and outward appearance. It is also the age when social comparison becomes a basis of self-evaluation.

He is now 7!!

At the age of seven Pinky is now starting the concret operational stage, which lasts from ages 7 to 11. This what means,basically is that he can now think logically, use it; like all anlogies, and perform mathemathical transformation also known as reversibility. It is applied to Pinky because he is going through this stage right now, but he isn't quite exactly enjoying it, because like all of our family what he truly detest is math. Formal operational stage is also occuring to him, this is when he is able to reason abstractly. He makes logical inquerences about his observations. Apart from that nothing much has changed, this is a period of refinement, when coordination improves and fine motor skills are sharpened.





http://www.greatschools.org/parenting/social-skills/developmental-milestones-your-7-year-old-child.gs?content=731

http://childparenting.about.com/od/childdevelopment/a/sevenyearoldhom.htm

A 6 year old now!

Pinky is now 6 years old and graduating from kindergarden. He received an award for being so caring and a great leader. He feels like a big boy and wants to be independent. But there are many times when he is not a big boy. For instance he is very messy and keeps leaving all his stuff scattered all over the house; also it is always troublesome to make him take a shower, brush his teeth or even wash his hands.




Answer to question # 4
Once Pinky made a big tantrum in the airport and everyone was in awe and staring. I felt so mad, but managed to control myself and be authoritative, so he would understand and act comprehensibly and obedient about it. I explained the situation to him and what would be the consequences of his actions and why.

http://www.greatschools.org/parenting/social-skills/developmental-milestones-your-6-year-old-child.gs?content=727

I fed the baby!

I was sleeping when I heard the baby cry! While changing his diapers he almost pees on me, the fountain was with energy. I gave him the bottled and waited so he could finish and went back to sleep.